Vicky
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Post by Vicky on Nov 27, 2006 14:20:53 GMT -5
Well, there's this guy I like. He's year above me and mega fit. He plays trumpet, I play saxophone.
I talk a lot on msn to him, and I know him pretty well, we don't talk much in face but we get on well.
Thing is he has a girlfriend, should I just carry on with a crush on him or try to move on?
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Post by Saskia on Nov 27, 2006 14:33:03 GMT -5
well if he likes you
you could just be friends and than see what happens
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Post by claire on Nov 27, 2006 14:41:37 GMT -5
I say you carry on the way you are with him.
But dont do anything til the gf is out of the picture. Things could get nasty if you do.
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Em
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Post by Em on Nov 27, 2006 17:04:49 GMT -5
Yeah, I agree with Claire. Just be the same with him and see what happens but definatly don't make a move if he has a girlfriend, it's not fair on her.
Even if nothing ends up happening with you two you still might end up being good friends if you just stay how you are with him so all is not lost.
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Vicky
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Post by Vicky on Nov 29, 2006 13:13:02 GMT -5
Ah thanks for the advice. I'll play it out and see what happens.
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Post by SnapesGirl on Nov 29, 2006 13:15:46 GMT -5
Yeah, I agree with everyone here, and think it's a smart move to just idle where you are for now.
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Post by goofybaby on Nov 29, 2006 15:05:29 GMT -5
I agree with everyone, i pretty much in the same situation, only difference is that i've gone out with this guy a few times, and he's the same year as me. Being friends with a guy that you like is great, and if it starts hurting, knowing that your only friends, don't give up. cause one day that guy and his girlfriend will break up, and then he might see that he really likes you, But i also agree with everyone else, don't do anything until his gf is out of the way. Believe me, if you do, it might get messy.
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Post by SoccerBlonde on Jan 10, 2007 10:30:27 GMT -5
Well there are a couple of things that can happen:
1. You remain idle then pass all chances of guys coming your way and they end up going out forever and you end up all frail.
2. He dumps his girlfriend go out with you and then you guys are happy.
3. You go for another guy then the second the other guy breaks up with his girlfriend you dump the guy you are currently with for the other one. And that will usually start rumors and a fight over you.
4. (I am gonna take a page out of David's book) You choose what you your heart tells you and not what your eyes say.
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